![]() ![]() “Appreciative” love is a function of the lover’s admiration for a feeling of aesthetic or physical qualities. It is manifested in a gift that is freely given, with no expectation of return. A Gift-love is independent and free of the expectation of reciprocity. However, Need-loves are exhausted once the need has been satisfied. ![]() It loves her because it needs her, and the need depends on the love. A Need-love is compared to an infant needing its mother. The talks received widespread criticism in conservative circles for what was, at the time, a frank discussion of sex and its implications.īefore beginning the discussion of the “loves” themselves, Lewis defines his terms and makes some distinctions between what are typically called “likes” versus “loves.” Clarity of language is paramount in The Four Loves, and the first categories are “Need-loves,” “Gift-loves,” and loves of “appreciation” (2). The Four Loves is derived from a 1958 series of radio broadcasts by Lewis. ![]()
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